John Ray Brumbaugh, Jr.
John Ray Brumbaugh Jr (Big John), passed away at age 60 on June 19, 2018.
John was born in South Dakota, moved to the peninsula in the late 1960s and graduated from Ferguson High School in 1976. He took great pride in his craft as a chef. At the age of 20, he was hired by Steve, of the former Steve’s Steak House, where a life-long fatherly bond ensued. John loved him dearly. After Steve retired briefly, he asked Big John if he would partner with him to open a new restaurant which later became known as Steve & John’s Steak & Seafood in Newport News in 93′. Big John remained dedicated, loyal and hard- working after Steve’s passing in 98 ‘ until Steve & John’s closed in 2013. He was extremely generous, intelligent, and best known by all his friends, customers and colleagues as being a prankster. His sharp wit and sense of humor provided many laughs for his customers over the years. He enjoyed cooking out, reading, bowling, playing chess, fishing, and riding his ATVs. He was a daredevil & enjoyed a challenge. He loved making people laugh as he rode his moped with his crazy helmets and flashy attire. He rode in Denbigh Days, Toys for Tots, and in the end gave back by being an organ donor. He was saved. He is preceded in death by his parents Roberta and John Brumbaugh Sr., survived by his wife of 40 years, Shari L. Brumbaugh, his sons John Brumbaugh III, Jason Brumbaugh, daughter in law Alison Brumbaugh and granddaughter Alexis Brumbaugh. A memorial service will be held at 11:00 AM on Saturday, June 30, 2018 at Amory Funeral Home Chapel in Yorktown. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Shari Brumbaugh, c/o SunTrust Bank, 5208 George Washington Highway, Grafton, VA 23692 to help with medical & other expenses.